For the endings, the grief that follows, and the long walk after.
Book a complimentary consultationSomething has ended, or it is ending, and you are standing in the middle of it. A person you love has died. A marriage is closing. A chapter you thought would last is finishing without your permission.
I have spent more than ten years with people in exactly this place, and I have learned that grief does not want to be fixed or hurried. It wants to be witnessed. My work is to sit with you in it, and when you are ready, to help you mark what happened in a way that honors both the loss and the love underneath it.
There is no timeline here and no right way to do this. You can come to me the week it happens or the year after. You can come for a full service with a hundred people or for a quiet hour with no one else in the room.
A service written from who they actually were, not from a template. I will listen to your family's stories and build something that sounds like the person you are gathering for.
Time to sit with the loss, and when it is wanted, connection with the one who has parted. Some people come for the ceremony, some come only for this, and some come for both.
A marriage ending deserves the same care its beginning received. A ceremony to close it with dignity, alone or together, so you can walk forward without carrying it all.
For someone nearing the end who would rather hear the words said while they can still hear them. We gather the people who love them and say it all out loud, together.
The first year, the tenth, the birthday that keeps arriving. A small ritual to mark the day, so it holds something other than the ache of it.
A job that defined you, a home you had to leave, a season that took something from you. Not every ending has a name, and every one of them still deserves to be marked.
Grief does not want to be fixed. It wants to be witnessed.
A conversation with no cost and no obligation, where you tell me as much or as little as you want to.
I listen to the stories and build what you need, whether that is a service, a ritual, or simply time together.
I carry the moment on the day, so your family can be present in it instead of managing it.
This work is priced to its scope, and I can meet you at home, at a graveside, or over video.
We will talk through all of it when we speak.
“We first contacted her when our mom was dying and we needed some guidance and comfort. Barbie was available for a reading and she was very kind and supportive. She helped us accept our mom’s passing and say goodbye with love.”
“I was blown away by how spot on she was. She also connected with my deceased husband. I left there feeling so good about everything. I feel so at peace. I highly recommend her to anyone wanting an honest reading. She’s the real deal.”
“Was a bit nervous beforehand but her warm spirit immediately put me at ease. She provided great insight on several matters and connected me with loved ones. She has been blessed with an amazing gift.”
Reach out whenever you are ready, and we will start with a conversation.
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