Offerings

Celebrations

The joyful thresholds, marked in a way that is truly yours.

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A wedding, the arrival of a child, the first night in a new home. These are the days we remember for the rest of our lives, and they deserve more than a script someone else wrote.

Every ceremony I create is composed for the people standing in it. I want to know how you met, what you have survived together, what you call each other when no one is listening. That is what goes into the words, and that is why they land.

Whatever your beliefs are, or are not, there is room for them here. I have married people in churches and on cliffs, with scripture and without it, in front of two hundred guests and in front of two.

What I offer

Weddings and the joining of souls

A full ceremony written for you, whether you want the legal marriage or simply the commitment. Handfastings, vow exchanges, and unions of every kind, for couples of every kind.

Elopements and small ceremonies

For two people and a witness, on a bluff at sunrise or in a living room. Intimate does not mean less meaningful, and these are some of my favorite ceremonies to lead.

New life and baby blessings

A welcome for a child who has just arrived, and a blessing for the parents who are being born alongside them. For families of any shape and any tradition.

Home blessings

A ceremony for a new house, a new chapter, or a fresh start in a space that is already yours. We set the intention for what you want this home to hold.

Vow renewals

For the ones who have made it through something and want to say so out loud. Five years, twenty-five, or the year you almost did not make it.

Milestones and personal rites

Coming of age, a new name, a graduation, a healing marked. If it matters to you, it is worth marking, and we can build the ceremony together.

Every ceremony begins with who you already are.

Simple from the start

How it works

i

We meet

A complimentary conversation to hear your story and see whether we are the right fit.

ii

We design

I learn who you are and compose a ceremony made for you alone, yours to shape.

iii

We prepare

We refine the words together, and gather for a rehearsal if the day calls for one.

iv

We gather

I stand with you on the day and carry the moment, so you can simply be present in it.

Ceremonies are priced to their scope, and I can travel to you or meet you where you are.
We will talk through all of it on our first call.

In their words

“Barbie is a kind soul to help you transform your life to a brighter future. She allows you trust and a space to grow without judgement so you can live your best life.”

Eric S.  ·  Tustin, CA

“Barbie is absolutely amazing. Her courses and coaching are top-notch, but what sets her apart is her ability to connect the personal and professional pieces of life in such a meaningful way.”

Megan Holte

“I have been going to Barbie since November of 2017. From our first session, I knew she was a caring and intuitive healer. Her insights are spot on and I trust her as a partner in my life journey.”

Michelle G.  ·  Santa Rosa, CA

Tell me about the day you are imagining.

Every ceremony starts with a simple conversation, with no pressure and no obligation.

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